On Hold? How to Shine After a College Admission Deferral

How to take action and maintain a positive outlook despite the initial disappointment of a deferral.

Receiving a deferral from your dream college can feel like being stuck in limbo. It's not a rejection, but it's also not the acceptance you've been eagerly awaiting. A deferral means the admissions committee sees potential in you but wants to review your application within the broader applicant pool. While it may feel discouraging, it's important to remember that you still have a chance at being admitted. Here's how to navigate this situation with poise and strategy.

Understand What a Deferral Means

First, it's crucial to understand what a deferral means. Colleges defer applicants for various reasons, often because they want to see how you fit into the applicant pool. They also might be waiting for further information, such as updated grades or test scores. A deferral is not an indication of your abilities or worth; it's a pause in the decision-making process.

Step 1: Process Your Emotions

It's okay to feel disappointed or frustrated, but don't let these feelings overwhelm you. Take a few days to process your emotions, talk with family, friends, or a counselor, and then shift your focus towards your next steps. Remember, a positive mindset can make a big difference in how you approach this challenge.

Step 2: Read the Deferral Letter Carefully

Colleges often include specific instructions in their deferral letters, such as submitting additional materials or maintaining certain grades. Make sure you understand what is asked of you and note any deadlines. I highly recommend following the directions that each college provides. I’m often asked by students if they should reach out to a teacher, advisor, or coach to send another letter on behalf of the student’s candidacy. Unless a college specifically asks for this, I recommend not sending this information as it can be perceived that a student hasn’t followed direction.

Step 3: Draft a Plan of Action

After understanding the college's requirements, it's time to strategize. Your plan may include improving your grades, enhancing your extracurricular profile, or taking on new leadership roles. Focus on areas you can control and will make your application stronger.

Step 4: Communicate with the College

If a college does accept additional information, then reaffirm your interest in the college. Write a letter or email to the admissions office:

• Express your continued interest in attending the college and why it remains your top choice.
• Update them on any new achievements, awards, improved grades, or extracurricular involvement since your initial application.
• Be concise and positive. Show your enthusiasm without sounding desperate.

Remember to thank them for the opportunity to be reconsidered and for their continued evaluation of your application.

Step 5: Submit Any Requested or Additional Materials

If the college has asked for additional materials or you have significant updates that strengthen your application, make sure to submit them promptly. 

Step 6: Keep Your Options Open

While you wait for a final decision, continue to apply to other colleges if you haven't already. Having multiple acceptances will ensure you have options come the fall. This can also take some of the pressure off the deferral.

Step 7: Stay Engaged and Continue to Excel

Continue working hard in your classes and extracurricular activities. Colleges may request a mid-year report, and showing continued or improved excellence can bolster your chances. Additionally, staying engaged will help keep your mind off the waiting game.

Final Thoughts

A deferral is not the end of the road; it's a bump along the way. How you choose to handle it can make all the difference. Keep a positive outlook, follow these steps, and remember that regardless of the outcome, there are numerous paths to success and finding the right college for you.

Remember, every challenge is an opportunity for growth. Keep pushing forward and good luck!